Before you can receive clarity, you have to decide what you want. You need to let the Universe know exactly what it is that you deeply desire so that It can provide it for you.
But when you start thinking about what you want, you may find it’s harder than you expected. Usually, when someone asks us what we want, we can rattle off all types of things. This may feel different.
You may resist listing out what you want because it feels greedy. When we live in a society that tells us we must work hard to achieve what we want, it can feel uncomfortable to expect to be able to spell out what we want and then prepare to receive it. So how do we get clear about what we want?
We need to believe we are worthy of our own happiness.
You are worthy of your own happiness
First of all, we need to believe we are worthy of our own happiness. The things, people or situations you are seeking are what you believe you need to live your ideal life – to live at your happiest.
If you don’t believe you deserve your ideal life, receiving it is going to be almost impossible. If this is tripping you up, spend some time forgiving yourself for the things you believe you need to be forgiven for. Then move onto manifesting your ideal life.
Grab up your journal and write down the things you would like to have or experience in each part of your life. This might be home life, career, friendship, success, creativity, clarity etc. Be as specific as possible with each thing.
For example, instead of saying, “I want a new love in my life,” which is very vague, write down all of the qualities you are looking for in a partner. Really go all out. Don’t settle for just what’s okay. Write down exactly what your ideal partner will be like, that’s clarity.
When you think you’ve written down everything you can think of, close your eyes and imagine a scene between you and this partner. How do they make you feel? What do you see you doing together? Where are you? Doing this will fill in the gaps of what you really want.
Most likely you want a feeling – when you are with the love of your life, you want to feel certain ways. What aspects of a person would make you feel that way? You will be amazed at how many additional things you will add to your list once you spend a little time visualizing your ideal – whatever it is.
You can do this easy exercise for each part of your life. Spending time visualizing and getting clarity about exactly what you want are powerful ways to open up and allow the Universe to attract your ideal life for you.
Here is an affirmation For You:
Every thought we think is creating our future and I am worthy of everything I desire.